hobbitslut Posted May 16, 2005 Share Posted May 16, 2005 (edited) Basically I fancy the pants off this guy but I am so shy. I have left it so long now he might be leavin in a few weeks. What do I do? Bear in mind this has been tormenting me for ages. As far as I know he's not aware......yet. I don't really know him. All replies will be duly noted and I will love you forever........ Edited May 16, 2005 by hobbitslut Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MORK MORAN Posted May 16, 2005 Share Posted May 16, 2005 hey hunni...damn this poll is hard!!!! i chose the top one...let him know how you feel,i am shy too and on many occasions mucked things up for me and the peeps that i fell in love with.Love makes us do things that we don't generally do, more malicious thatn others...even if you give it to him in note form at least he will know how oyu feel keep the vision....hold a dream mork moran xxx Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Moderators DavidB Posted May 16, 2005 Moderators Share Posted May 16, 2005 I say .. shoot him. Eliminates the problem. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MORK MORAN Posted May 16, 2005 Share Posted May 16, 2005 I say .. shoot him. Eliminates the problem. hehe..gud one..but then heartache would follow and possible sucidal tendancies..so really bad idea..but gr8 on enemies Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jola Posted May 16, 2005 Share Posted May 16, 2005 At the end of the day life is too short to be sitting there saying "What If". So what if you're shy? What's the worst that could happen? He says no! Big deal! At the end of the day if you speak to him, a) you're building up your confidence and if he does say no you may still get a good friend out of it (he'll feel honoured you think of him in that way) and c) He might just say yes Grab the bull by the horns so to speak - Good Luck! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MORK MORAN Posted May 16, 2005 Share Posted May 16, 2005 At the end of the day life is too short to be sitting there saying "What If". So what if you're shy? What's the worst that could happen? He says no! Big deal! At the end of the day if you speak to him, a) you're building up your confidence and if he does say no you may still get a good friend out of it (he'll feel honoured you think of him in that way) and c) He might just say yes Grab the bull by the horns so to speak - Good Luck! indeed i agree..go for it!!!!!!! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tomfeltonlover2k3 Posted May 16, 2005 Share Posted May 16, 2005 yeh jus tell him, i woz in the excat same situation a few weeks ago, except he is a friend of mine lol. ne way he sed no coz he likes someonelse at the moment ne way basically we are now like the best of friends ever and our friendship is stronger, so even tho im goin out with him ive not lost out on anything coz im still really good mates wiv him. lol so u got nothing to lose. good luck Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Nell Posted May 16, 2005 Share Posted May 16, 2005 I say tell him! It's like Jola says, he might just say yes!! and anyway, if things don't work out for you he's leaving so it wouldn't be awkward for long! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tooty_fruity Posted May 16, 2005 Share Posted May 16, 2005 Lemmie see...i liked this guy and told someone else. basically she has the biggest gob in the world and told him. he said i was too young for him, despite him only bein 2 years older than me! then we were doing something together and he just decided to ask me out, so we went for a drink and then he walked me home and we kissed and it was a bit akward when we saw each other the next time. so i was like, crap cos i thought i'd messed everything up so i went to him and asked him out for a drink and told him exactly how i felt, and he said he was the same, but he was a bit shy!!! seeeeeeee, had i been shy, we'd have both missed out..your dude might be exactly the same! kirsty xx Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Nell Posted May 16, 2005 Share Posted May 16, 2005 Lemmie see...i liked this guy and told someone else. basically she has the biggest gob in the world and told him. he said i was too young for him, despite him only bein 2 years older than me!then we were doing something together and he just decided to ask me out, so we went for a drink and then he walked me home and we kissed and it was a bit akward when we saw each other the next time. so i was like, crap cos i thought i'd messed everything up so i went to him and asked him out for a drink and told him exactly how i felt, and he said he was the same, but he was a bit shy!!! seeeeeeee, had i been shy, we'd have both missed out..your dude might be exactly the same! kirsty xx go you!!! I love happy endings me!! *sniff* Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tiggsy Posted May 16, 2005 Share Posted May 16, 2005 Like everyone else has said go for it,if you never know if what could have been then it might drive you even more insane.So got for it,and good luck Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Frodos_Girl Posted May 16, 2005 Share Posted May 16, 2005 I used to be quite shy and when I liked guys I never said anything, I basically just regretted it. Now I have more confidence and I don't wanna make the same mistakes, so I tell them that I like them they either just think I'm a slut which I certainly am not or just don't like meh! But that's just me anyway. Ah I give up on guys. But I totally reckon you should go for it! :) Good luck! x.x.x Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Nell Posted May 16, 2005 Share Posted May 16, 2005 you're too good for them hun *hugs* Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Frodos_Girl Posted May 16, 2005 Share Posted May 16, 2005 Meh *shrugs* Nopers. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jacali Posted May 16, 2005 Share Posted May 16, 2005 have confidence in yourselves you lot! you are all beautiful special amazing people any1 should be glad to even know you let alone be fancied by you! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
feralmoggy Posted May 17, 2005 Share Posted May 17, 2005 Watch out Cheese ahoy. " Better to have loved and been loved than not to have loved at all " "Life is too busy to be worrying about regrets" Go for it ... like you said he might be leaving so what the heck. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
feralmoggy Posted May 17, 2005 Share Posted May 17, 2005 Alternatively you could stalk the guy, make his life a misery but get lots of exercise in the process. Howerver there are a few drawbacks like restrining orders and ASBOs but if you're willing to risk it? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
elijahs_ladie Posted May 17, 2005 Share Posted May 17, 2005 DO IT!! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
~*~marie~*~ Posted May 17, 2005 Share Posted May 17, 2005 (edited) dont do what i did...i saw my crush coming towards me yesterday so i ran in the nearest shop..and it had been raining..so i nearly slipped over and trashed the display. both the peeps i have crushes on know..so hey...just get it out there dude. i do it all the time.. flirt with the dude and see what happens...ye never know..he mite be feelin the same way as you. Edited May 17, 2005 by ~*~marie~*~ Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Nell Posted May 17, 2005 Share Posted May 17, 2005 omg that would have been devastating! thank god you didn't trash the display!!! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
prophecy_girl Posted May 17, 2005 Share Posted May 17, 2005 I would defiantly tell him how you feel, I am way shy too. You don't want to live with regrets though...don't let the moment pass you, just say how you feel and least you know then if it can go somewhere or not. Otherwise you're be kicking yourself in the future cause you never would of known what could of been. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Russell Nash Posted May 17, 2005 Share Posted May 17, 2005 Meh *shrugs* Nopers. lol Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tooty_fruity Posted May 17, 2005 Share Posted May 17, 2005 Lemmie see...i liked this guy and told someone else. basically she has the biggest gob in the world and told him. he said i was too young for him, despite him only bein 2 years older than me!then we were doing something together and he just decided to ask me out, so we went for a drink and then he walked me home and we kissed and it was a bit akward when we saw each other the next time. so i was like, crap cos i thought i'd messed everything up so i went to him and asked him out for a drink and told him exactly how i felt, and he said he was the same, but he was a bit shy!!! seeeeeeee, had i been shy, we'd have both missed out..your dude might be exactly the same! kirsty xx go you!!! I love happy endings me!! *sniff* haha, everyone has a happy ending somewhere! and yea, i was pleased! kirsty xx Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Scorch Posted May 17, 2005 Share Posted May 17, 2005 Oke, take the guy for a drink or six, get him drunk, and then tell him how you feel. That way, if it ain't mutual, then he'll be too intoxicated to remember thus sparing you from feeling overly humiliated. Good luck! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
hobbitslut Posted May 18, 2005 Author Share Posted May 18, 2005 Thanks for your help. Will do it tonight IF I see him and IF I don't chicken out. God, I'm so nervous I feel slightly sick. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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