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Poll: Should I approach the guy? (37 member(s) have cast votes)

Should I approach the guy?

  1. Yes, tell him how you feel (20 votes [54.05%])

    Percentage of vote: 54.05%

  2. Yes, buy him a drink (16 votes [43.24%])

    Percentage of vote: 43.24%

  3. No way (1 votes [2.70%])

    Percentage of vote: 2.70%

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#1 hobbitslut

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Posted 16 May 2005 - 07:12 PM

Basically I fancy the pants off this guy but I am so shy. I have left it so long now he might be leavin in a few weeks. What do I do? Bear in mind this has been tormenting me for ages. As far as I know he's not aware......yet. I don't really know him.
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Posted 16 May 2005 - 07:18 PM

hey hunni...damn this poll is hard!!!!
i chose the top one...let him know how you feel,i am shy too and on many occasions mucked things up for me and  the peeps that i fell in love with.Love makes us do things that we don't generally do, more malicious thatn others...even if you give it to him in note form at least he will know how oyu feel

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Posted 16 May 2005 - 07:24 PM

I say .. shoot him. Eliminates the problem.
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Posted 16 May 2005 - 07:26 PM

DavidB, on May 16 2005, 08:24 PM, said:

I say .. shoot him. Eliminates the problem.
hehe..gud one..but then heartache would follow and possible sucidal tendancies..so really bad idea..but gr8 on enemies :D
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Posted 16 May 2005 - 07:35 PM

At the end of the day life is too short to be sitting there saying "What If".

So what if you're shy? What's the worst that could happen? He says no! Big deal!

At the end of the day if you speak to him, a) you're building up your confidence and :D if he does say no you may still get a good friend out of it (he'll feel honoured you think of him in that way) and c) He might just say yes ^_^

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Posted 16 May 2005 - 07:36 PM

Jola, on May 16 2005, 08:35 PM, said:

At the end of the day life is too short to be sitting there saying "What If".

So what if you're shy? What's the worst that could happen? He says no! Big deal!

At the end of the day if you speak to him, a) you're building up your confidence and :D if he does say no you may still get a good friend out of it (he'll feel honoured you think of him in that way) and c) He might just say yes ^_^

Grab the bull by the horns so to speak - Good Luck!
indeed i agree..go for it!!!!!!!
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Posted 16 May 2005 - 08:07 PM

yeh jus tell him, i woz in the excat same situation a few weeks ago, except he is a friend of mine lol. ne way he sed no coz he likes someonelse at the moment ne way basically we are now like the best of friends ever and our friendship is stronger, so even tho im goin out with him ive not lost out on anything coz im still really good mates wiv him. lol so u got nothing to lose. good luck :D

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Posted 16 May 2005 - 08:55 PM

I say tell him! It's like Jola says, he might just say yes!! and anyway, if things don't work out for you he's leaving so it wouldn't be awkward for long!
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Posted 16 May 2005 - 09:00 PM

Lemmie see...i liked this guy and told someone else. basically she has the biggest gob in the world and told him. he said i was too young for him, despite him only bein 2 years older than me!
then we were doing something together and he just decided to ask me out, so we went for a drink and then he walked me home and we kissed and it was a bit akward when we saw each other the next time.
so i was like, crap cos i thought i'd messed everything up so i went to him and asked him out for a drink and told him exactly how i felt, and he said he was the same, but he was a bit shy!!! seeeeeeee, had i been shy, we'd have both missed out..your dude might be exactly the same!

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Posted 16 May 2005 - 09:13 PM

tooty_fruity, on May 16 2005, 10:00 PM, said:

Lemmie see...i liked this guy and told someone else. basically she has the biggest gob in the world and told him. he said i was too young for him, despite him only bein 2 years older than me!
then we were doing something together and he just decided to ask me out, so we went for a drink and then he walked me home and we kissed and it was a bit akward when we saw each other the next time.
so i was like, crap cos i thought i'd messed everything up so i went to him and asked him out for a drink and told him exactly how i felt, and he said he was the same, but he was a bit shy!!! seeeeeeee, had i been shy, we'd have both missed out..your dude might be exactly the same!

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Posted 16 May 2005 - 09:15 PM

Like everyone else has said go for it,if you never know if what could have been then it might drive you even more insane.So got for it,and good luck :P

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Posted 16 May 2005 - 09:17 PM

I used to be quite shy and when I liked guys I never said anything, I basically just regretted it. Now I have more confidence and I don't wanna make the same mistakes, so I tell them that I like them they either just think I'm a slut which I certainly am not or just don't like meh! But that's just me anyway.

Ah I give up on guys.


But I totally reckon you should go for it! :) Good luck!

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Posted 16 May 2005 - 09:22 PM

you're too good for them hun *hugs*
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Posted 16 May 2005 - 10:22 PM

Meh *shrugs* Nopers.
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Posted 16 May 2005 - 10:27 PM

have confidence in yourselves you lot! you are all beautiful special amazing people any1 should be glad to even know you let alone be fancied by you!
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Posted 17 May 2005 - 10:33 AM

Watch out Cheese ahoy.

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Go for it ... like you said he might be leaving so what the heck.
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Posted 17 May 2005 - 10:36 AM

Alternatively you could stalk the guy, make his life a misery but get lots of exercise in the process. Howerver there are a few drawbacks like restrining orders and ASBOs but if you're willing to risk it?  :rolleyes:
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Posted 17 May 2005 - 12:21 PM

DO IT!!  :unsure:  :D
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Posted 17 May 2005 - 02:20 PM

dont do what i did...i saw my crush coming towards me yesterday so i ran in the nearest shop..and it had been raining..so i nearly slipped over and trashed the display. :rolleyes:

both the peeps i have crushes on know..so hey...just get it out there dude. i do it all the time..
flirt with the dude and see what happens...ye never know..he mite be feelin the same way as you.
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Posted 17 May 2005 - 02:23 PM

omg that would have been devastating! thank god you didn't trash the display!!!
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