WillCarter, on May 30 2011, 08:35 PM, said:
I was so unbelievably nervous going up to Robert Englund, this was only my third convention and only my second ever Autograph, but he was great. I got a 1987 copy of Fangoria signed with 'To Will, Freddy K, Robert Englund.'
I managed a thank you and shook his hand but shyness well and truly got the better of me, I envy those of you that manage to have a quick natter with the guests.
Hey don't worry, I was like that when I first went to one of these (CM4 back in 2003).
I find a little bit of pre-planning works wonders. Think about who you want to meet and then think is there something about a particular show/film you want to ask them about? Something about them? Doesn't have to be much to kickstart a conversation.
I don't always know a great deal about some of the guests and do a bit of research before turning up. For example, I read a quote about how Gates McFadden got her role in Star Trek. It was quite amusing and so I asked her if it was true and that got a nice little conversation going.
With David Blue, it was easy as it was all about Stargate Universe being cancelled and the last episode.
First person I met at CM4 was George Takai and I'd read his autobiography a while before and had a fascinating conversation about some of his experiences as a child during WWII and the way the Japanese in the US at the time had been treated. It was something I'd never heard about and he seemed so appreciative that I'd learned something from what he'd written. Lovely man.
Sometimes just pick up on what's going on. When the last football World Cup was on, Joe Flanigan (Stargate Atlantis) was one of the guests and was wearing an England fleece against the cold. I totally forgot what I meant to ask and ended up asking him about that and talking about football (soccer) amongst other things which was cool.
So a bit of advanced thought and it's really not so hard. Some guests will initiate the conversation but if you can come up with something a little bit different it won't do any harm at all at piquing their interest and getting a chat going, if there's time of course. Sometimes there's just no time though, judge by how quickly the people in front of you are being pushed through.
It'll come and hopefully enhance your experience in the future.